Manzil se takrana

sach jise manzil socha woh to dhoka nikla
kach ka ghar tha humne chamakta hira socha,
kaas jaan paate aisa dhoka hoga hoga
to sambhal paate girne se pehle,

ab to sambhal na hi muskil hai
kach ke ghar se takra ke
pero mai daraare jo par gayi hai
ab to chalna hi muskil ho gaya hai,

par kya hua daraare hi to hai
kabhi na kabhi to bahrengi
tab phir se chalungi
nahi ruukungi tab,

sayad jindagi ka paigaam yahi hai
chalte raho raahon mai
girna sabhalna to jindagi hai
bas hume chalte he jaana hai

gum ka inzaar aur khusi se inkaar

Chalo khusi ne apni dastak to di
aahat sunte sunte saadiya guzar gayi,
ab jakar khusi ne apna daman mere haath mai thamaya hai
pyaar to nahi diya par
chalo apna ahsaas to karaya hai,
par hai tune yeh kya kiya
apne saath phir kyo gum ko
chupa liya
mujhe gum se pyaar ho gaya hai
ab mai gam ke bina reh nahi sakti
sayad isliye tujhe aane ki izzazat mili
khuda bhi zaanta hai
mujhe ek pal  ki khusi na dena hai
isliye to sayad khusi ko aane ka ahssas hua hai
aaj baris khushiyo ki nahi hui hai
phir se kisi ne mujhe aaj daga diya hai
jab pyaar hua gam se
to gum bhi nasib na hua hai
isi ko kehte hai sayad nasseb
jo humko kabhi mukkamal hi nahi hua hai

In your eyes I see beauty
All that is wonderful in this world
All I ever wanted
And prayed for in a girl

In your eyes I see the ocean
Such peace you bring to the sea
I see warm waters in your heart
You seem to have that effect on me

As I lay here,
thinking of you.
All my thoughts,
Gray and Blue.
I wish I could see you,
I wish I could.
Then maybe my life
could be understood.
But, still I'm down
and Thinking Of You.
Hoping you love me,
like I love you

new poem

What do we do with the challenges in the life? One option is to run away and other is to meet those head long with all our might.

Gum

Kisi Apne Ko Khona Wo Kya Jaane,
Bina Neend K Sona Wo Kya Jane,
Us Shakhs ne To Mujhe Mehfilon Me Muskurate Dekha Hai,
Mera Tanhai Me Rona Wo Kya Jaane..

LOGIC AND HUMOUR...........

 
Equations! - This is the best I have read in a LONG time
 

Equation 1
Human = eat + sleep + work + enjoy
Donkey = eat + sleep
Therefore:



Human = Donkey + Work + enjoy
Therefore:
Human-enjoy = Donkey + Work
In other words,
A Human that doesn't know how to enjoy = Donkey that works.

++++++++++++ +++++++++ +++++++++ +++++++++ +++++++++ ++ ++

Equation 2
Man = eat + sleep + earn money
Donkey = eat + sleep
Therefore:
Man = Donkey + earn money
Therefore:

 

Man-earn money = Donkey
In other words
Man who doesn't earn money = Donkey

++++++++++++ +++++++++ +++++++++ +++++++++ +++++++++ +


Equation 3
Woman= eat + sleep + spend
Donkey = eat + sleep
Therefore:
Woman = Donkey + spend
Woman - spend = Donkey
In other words,
Woman who doesn't spend = Donkey

To Conclude:
From Equation 2 and Equation 3

 

Man who doesn't earn money = Woman who doesn't spend
So Man earns money not to let woman become a donkey!
And a woman spends not to let the man become a donkey!

 

So, We have:
Man + Woman = Donkey + earn money + Donkey + Spend money

 

Therefore from postulates 1 and 2, we can conclude

 

Man + Woman = 2 Donkeys that live happily together!

A young Law student, having failed his Law exam, goes up to his crusty old professor, who is renowned for his razor-sharp legal mind.  

Student: "Sir, do you really understand everything about this subject?"
Professor: "Actually, I probably do. Otherwise I wouldn't be a professor, would I?"
Student: "OK. So I’d like to ask you a question. If you can give me the correct answer, I will accept my marks as it is. If you can't give me the correct answer, however, you'll have to give me an "A".
Professor: "Hmmmm, alright. So what’s the question?"
Student: "What is legal but not logical, logical but not legal, and neither logical nor legal? "
The professor wracks his famous brain, but just can't crack the answer. Finally he gives up and changes the student's failing mark into an "A" as agreed, and the student goes away, very pleased.
The professor continues to wrack his brain over the question all afternoon, but still can’t get the answer. So finally he calls in a group of his brightest students and tells them he has a really, really tough question to answer: "What is legal but not logical, logical but not legal, and neither logical nor legal? "

To the professor's surprise (and embarrassment), all the students immediately raise their hands.

"All right" says the professor and asks his favourite student to answer

"It's quite easy, sir" says the student "You see, you are 75 years old and married to a 30 year old woman, which is legal, but not logical. Your wife has a 22 year old lover, which is logical, but not legal. And your wife's lover failed his exam but you've just given him an "A", which is neither legal, nor logical !!!!!!"

Lessons in Logic

If your father is a poor man,
it is your fate but,
if your father-in-law is a poor man,
it's your stupidity.
............. ......... ......... ......... ......... ......... ...........

Practice makes perfect.....
But nobody's perfect..... .
so why practice?
............. .......... ......... ......... ......... ......... ..........

If it's true that we are here to help others,
then what exactly are the others here for?
............ ......... ......... ......... ......... ......... ...........

Since light travels faster than sound,
people appear bright until you hear them speak.
............ .......... ......... ......... ......... .......... ..........

One should love animals.
They are so tasty.
............ ......... .......... ......... ......... ......... ...........

Behind every successful man, there is a woman
And behind every unsuccessful man, there are two.
............. ......... ......... ......... ......... .......... ..........

Every man should marry.
After all, happiness is not the only thing in
life.
............ ......... ......... .......... .......... ......... ..........

The wise never marry.
and when they marry they become otherwise.
............. ......... ......... ......... ......... .......... ..........

Success is a relative term.
It brings so many relatives.
............. ......... ......... .......... ......... ......... ..........

"Your future depends on your dreams"
So go to sleep
............ ......... ......... ......... .......... ......... ...........

There should be a better way to start a day
Than waking up every morning
............. ......... ......... ......... ......... ......... ..........

"Hard work never killed anybody"
But why take the risk
............. ......... ......... ......... .......... ......... ..........

"Work fascinates me"
I can look at it for hours
............ .......... ......... .......... ......... ......... ..........

God made relatives;
Thank God we can choose our friends.
............. ......... ......... .......... ......... ......... ..........
The more you learn, the more you know,
The more you know, the more you forget
The more you forget, the less you know
So.. why learn.
............. ......... .......... ......... ......... ......... ..........
A bus station is where a bus stops.
A train station is where a train stops.
On my desk, I have a work station....
what more can I say........

zindagi

pata nahi tha zindagi ke ish mor par aaungi
jab hasil kuch na hoga
bahut apna samjha sabko
par koi hasil na hua
moka parne par sab dur chale gaye
koi na paas aaya
aur jab murke dekha to phir se
hum akele reh gaye
ab jab akele hai to
tanha hi katenge safar
ab na bhatak ne denge pass kisi ko
aur apna raasta khud banayenge

jab manzil mil jayyegi to laut kar ayyenge warna wapas kahi kho jayyenge

MUJHE JINE DO

Maine kab kaha mujhe swarg sukh chahiye
maine kab kaha mujhe har waastu chahiye
bas apni jindagi jina chahti huun
mujhe jine do use purna tarike se
mujhe chor do
mat jakro jaanjiro mai
mujhe jine ka ek mauka to do
mai nahi kar sakti phir se nayi suruaat
jo mila tha use jine to do

maine jyaada kuch nahi maanga   jindagi se
bas jo haasil kiya use paane to do
kya itni buri jindagi hai meri
ki paane ke baad bhi khona pare
bas mujhe kuch nahi chahiye jindagi tujhse
bas mera khoya samaan lota do
warna jindagi mai kuch aisa kar do
ki humein aur jindagi ki tamanna hi nahi rahe
aur tu  jindagi bas khush rahe

khawab aur raakh

pata hi nahi chala kabhi raakh aur khawab ka rista
par kuch to jaroor hai jo hame nahi hai pata
sayad woh kabhi ek doosre se nahi mile ho
par kuch to hai unke darmia

na raakh, na khawab mai koi rista
par laage jaise kisi ne kisi ko hai loota
raakh ki dheri mai khwaab jal gaye
to khwaab ko paane ke liye raakh urr gayi

kya azzeb daastaan hai dono ki
pyaar se pyaar nahi karte
aur ek doosre se hai darte
par chahte hai dono milna
sayad isliye ek doosre ko milne ko  taraste
kaun anth mai jiitega nahi pata
par jo bhi jiteega rahega hamesa hi akela

A sweet prayer from a sweet child named chintu

Little Chintu came into the kitchen where his mother was cooking dinner.
His birthday was coming up and he thought this was a good time to tell his mother what he wanted.
Mom, I want a Cycle for my birthday.
Little Chintu was a bit of a troublemaker.
He had gotten into trouble at school and at home.
Chintu's mother asked him if he thought he deserved to get a Cycle for his birthday.
Little Chintu, of course, thought he did.
Chintu's mother wanted Chintu to reflect on his behavior over the last year.
Go to your room, Chintu, and think about how you have behaved this year.
Then write a letter to Krishna and tell him why you deserve a Cycle for your birthday.
Little Chintu stomped up the steps to his room and sat down to write Krishna a letter.

**************
Letter 1
Dear Krishna ,
I have been a very good boy this year and I would like a Cycle for my birthday.
I want a red one.
Your friend,
Chintu
**************
Chintu knew that this wasn't true. He had not been a very good boy this year,
So he tore up the letter and started over.
**************
Letter 2
Dear Krishna ,
This is your friend Chintu. I have been a good boy this year and I
would like A red Cycle for my birthday. Thank you.
Your friend,
Chintu
**************
Chintu knew that this wasn't true either. So, he tore up the letter and started again.
**************
Letter 3
Dear Krishna ,
I have been an OK boy this year. I still would really like a Cycle for my birthday.
Chintu
**************
Chintu knew he could not send this letter to Krishna either. So, Chintu wrote a fourth letter.
**************
Letter 4
Krishna ,
I know I haven't been a good boy this year. I am very sorry.
I will be a good boy if you just send me a Cycle for my birthday.
Please! Thank you,
Chintu
**************
Chintu knew, even if it was true, this letter was not going to get him a Cycle.
Now, Chintu was very upset. He went downstairs and told his mom that he wanted to go to temple.
Chintu's mother thought her plan had worked, as Chintu looked very sad.
Just be home in time for dinner, Chintu's mother told him.
Chintu walked down the street to the temple on the corner.
Little Chintu went into the temple and up to the altar.
He looked around to see if anyone was there.
Chintu bent down and picked up a statue of the radha.
He slipped the statue under his shirt and ran out of the temple, down the street, into the house, and up to his room.
He shut the door to his room and sat down with a piece of paper and a pen.

Chintu began to write his letter to Krishna .

**************
Letter 5
Krishna ,
I'VE KIDNAPPED YOUR GIRLFRIEND. IF YOU WANT TO SEE HER AGAIN, SEND THE
CYCLE!!!!!!

A sweet and true love story

Does Love need a Reason...??
           
Some people never understand
 



Once a lady when having a conversation with her lover, asked:


Lady :
Why do you like me..? Why do you love me?



Man :
I can t tell the reason.. but I really like you..


Lady :
You can t even tell me the reason... how can you say you like
me? How can you say you love me?


Man :
I really don t know the reason, but I can prove that I love U.


Lady :
Proof? No! I want you to tell me the reason. My friend s boyfriend can tell her why he loves her but not you!




Man :
Ok..ok!!! Erm... because you are beautiful,


because your voice is sweet,


because you are caring,


because you are loving,


because you are thoughtful,


because of your smile,


because of your every movements.


The lady felt very satisfied with the man s answer.

Unfortunately, a few days later, the Lady met with an accident and went in comma.



The Guy then placed a letter by her side,


here is the content:
Darling,Because of your sweet voice that I love you...Now can you talk? No! Therefore I cannot love you.


Because of your care and concern that I like you..Now that you cannot show them, therefore I cannot love you.


Because of your smile,because of your every movements that I love you..


Now can you smile? Now can you move?No, therefore I cannot love you...



If love needs a reason, like now,There is no reason for me to love you anymore.


Does love need a reason?

NO!Therefore,
I still LOVE YOU...



"True love never dies for it is lust that fades away. Love bonds for a lifetime but lust just pushes away"

************ ********* **

Immature love says: 'I love you because I need you.' Mature love says 'I need you because I love you.'
'Fate Determines Who Comes Into Our Lives, But Heart Determines Who Stays...'

Hansi

Kitna muskil hai hasna ab koi humse pooche
pehle jab hasti thi to log kehte the itna mat hasa kar
aaj hasne ko kehte hai to has nahi pati
aisa kyo hota hai jindagi ke saath

humain jo chahiye woh hume kabhi milta nahi
aur milta nahi woh hume chahiye nahi hota\
par chahne ya na chahne se kya hota hai
hota to wahi hai
zo manzoore khuda hota hai

sapna

sapna kya hai hume nahi pata
kyunki sapne ko dekhne ki himmat
humme nahi hai,
zindagi ko humne khub pehchan liya hai
isme jab thore se pal ki
khusiya nasib nahi hai
to sapno ka kya hoga
waise bhi sapno mai kuch dikhta bhi nahi hai
bas do pal ki tazgi mil jaati hai
asal zindagi se
par kya itna muskil hai
sapno ko dekhna aur paana
humne to socha bhi nahi kabhi
humko kya paana hai
kyunki sochte to woh hai
jinko azaadi ho sochne ki
hume to bas chalte jaana hai
jo bhi mile raaste
aur jab chalte chalte thak jaayenge
to thamne ke liye bhi koi nahi hoga
kyunki zindagi itni hasin nahi hai hamari
 hume na to kissi  ka
sahara mila , na milega
ha bas ek dwand rahega ki
humne hasrat nahi ki
 kuch paane ki bas isiliye kabhi
sapne dekhne ki himmat kar bhi le
par sapno mai dikhega bhi to wahi
ek kaali raat usme ek lamba raasta aur door door tak koi nahi
bas hume chalte jaana hai uspe
manzil ko bina pehchane
kaas hamein yeh to pata hota
hum jaa kaha rahe hai
par hume to woh bhi nasib nahi
bas chalte jaana hai
anzaane raasto par bas chalte jaana hai

sahara

sahara dhoondte dhoondte jindagi nikal gayi
kabhi socha hi nahi hum bhi apne
pero par khare ho sakte hai
aur jab socha to khare hone ki himmat hi chali gayi
pata nahi kyo humne jindagi aise bita di
hum jab sochte hai to lagta hai
kaas hum phir se jindagi ko shuruyat kar paate,
to jindagi badal jaati
din to chale gaaye ab mujhe raat ko badalna hai
so badal dalungi raat ko
sayad din phir se aa jaye
aake hume apne saathh le jaaye
 wahi manzil ke paas jiski hume talaash hai
isliye ab humne saahare dhoondna band kar diye
ab hum khud khare hone ka prayaas kar rahe hai
sayad samay lagega
par hoonge jaruur khare pero par apne

Gam

e kaas gam kahi tu kho jaata,
ek pal ke liye to humse bichar jaata,
hum to tere se juda hone ke liye keh nahi rahe hai
bas pal do pal ko alag reh kar
khushiyo ko chune ka moka dedo.
bas chune ki khawaish hai
pane ki to tawazu hum nahi karte
bas tu ssath rehna humare
taki apne gam ko geet banaker hum gaale

i dont know

why it happens to me. i was just started my life suddenly again god repeated the same thing gave me lots of worry and tension. plz maa durga cant u take away my all worries and tension. if u cant plz take my life away i dont wanna live this life. If u think i have lived my life then plz take my life. i dont wanna live this life. i am ready to leave this life but my condition is that u have to take my life.

Direction which I was searching

Yesterday i got the way which i was searching in my life . Thanx . Thanx for making me aware what i can do and what i need from my life. now i can say nothong can stop me from getting my aim. I decided my aim and i am gonna get it. Hey before yesterday i was not aware of my self .so now the countdown starts and i am ready to lead my life in my own way

Today i am very much happy coz i got some selected poems which i was searching from my childhood days. Ya i read all these poems when i was a kid now i am grown up so i thought i need some refreshment .so i after spending a lot of time i got my favourites poems and i am too satisfied that i have softcopy off all this poems coz now a days no value of hard copy. i had all these poems as a hard copy but now i have both. today i remembered my past and i was missing my mother's teaching. she taught me all these poems that i cant forget all these poems in my llife time. Salute to my mom's teaching. she is a hindi teacher so i am proud of my mummy.(its now but at that time i didnt want to take tutions from my mummy.). sorry mummy for not listening your words in my childhood. But still u are the most favourite teacher of my life. i promise you that i will never cross my limits and one day you will feel proud of me. 

Manzil Aur Kismat Ka Dwand

Kya hua jo kai manzilen gayi ,
Manzilon ki kami nahi hai raho mai ,
Milegi manzil mujhe bas bacha ke rakhna hai aaho ko apni ,
Kas hum kuch kar pate bhagya ke aage,to mil jati manzil mujhe ,
Par pata na tha itna visvas hai manusya bhagya ke aage kahi ,
Socha tha lar lenge apne bhagya se hum ,
Par aaj jab manzill ko chutte dekha kareeb se ,
Tab laga ki kash apna haath badal pati ,
To sayad takdire badal jati ,
Par kya haath badalne se kuch hota hai ,
Mujhe to lakeere badal ni hai ,
Badal dalungi haton ki lakiron ko ,
Badal dalungi kismat ka likha ,
kuch to hoga haath mai mere ,
warna mita dalungi khud ko ,
badal ne ki chah mai apne haaton ki lakiron ko ,

This is my first publicaly posted poem. so hope you all will enjoy my sorrow and pain in it
Its more about pain . Just today I wrote it  in a bus and posted in my blog.

MAHALAYA

“DEHI SAUBHAAGYAM AAROGYAM DEHI DVISHO JAHI.
VIDEHI DEVI KALYANAM VIDEHI PARMASHRIYAM, RUPAM DEHI JAYAM DEHI YASHO DEHI DVISHO JAHI.”

HAPPY MAHALAYA to all of u. Today its 7.22 A.M and i am writing this. Actually this is the day which we are celebrating from past 22 years. I never remebered that i didn't go outside with my parents to call or invite  Goddess Durga. Missing the day but still through internet i can hear the mantras and can feel the puja from heart. Please devi durga make us happy and satisfied. We all family memebers have faith in you so please help us as we need you now. I know i am gonna miss my hometown though i am happy because  i know that still my heart is in my hometown. I used to stand on terrace till 3 A.M. to see people roaming in Saptami,Astami, and Navami. Dasmi i am gonna miss you too much. The dancing of my friends when they used to go to Bhasan. oh can't stop myself from recalling the past. I am gonna miss you all of my friends and everything related to Durga puja.I will miss the khichri and labra. of Astami  .I. cant forget those days. Those days were the best days of my life. Wearing new dress i used to roam with friends. Really these day i am feeling too much Loneliness because i am here far away from my home and friends. Hope soon i will able to visit my hometown and also will able to enjoy the Durga puja once again

responsibilities

Today my day was really hectic. I went somewhere for a recruitment drive and do u know what happened today there was so crowd they cancelled the drive oh god i spent there 4 hours for getting chance to sit for the drive but i didn't get chance. then i came back at 5 and i remembered i had a mail for another drive from 3 to 5 pm but again i remembered i need to buy injection for my mummy and have to parcel it through my brother in law. so i left the idea of walk in and went to buy medicine after searching a lot i got that. It was raining heavily though i was walking in rain because i knew its important to buy medicine. oh i went to sister's home after walking 5 km. in the midway i bought a book named i too had a love story and wings on the fire .

still i didnt read so i cant make any comments on books but i think everyone have a love story .
 "Kadli sheep bhujang swati ek gun teen jaisi sangati baithiye waiso hi phaldin"

Ya its true for everyone. till today i was unable to distinguish between another lines   "jo rahim uttam prakati kya kari sakat kusang cjandan wish byapat nahi lipte rehat bhujang"

but today i got answer. sometimes we cant change our self. we need to follow someones instructions .ya its true see every guy after marriage .they hear a lot to their wives not parents. sometimes i am get puzzled that how a son or girl can treat their parents as their enemy.
sometimes i get tired of performing my duty then again i think at lest i am better then those guys who don't even know their responsibilities. ya i am telling about my brother . How guys can forget their duties . i know its difficult to balance family and job but still they can make a try even when their parents need them. every parents have some expectations from their children . sometimes i shout that do i am here only  to perform my duty then after a moment i think that its good that i have some responsibilities. At least i have something to do which makes me more strong in my life.
ya when i will go somewhere they will ask me what u did the whole year then i will not able to make them  understand my problem because still i am a failure in my field. i am unable to make my career but is it less to have a title of responsible daughter when those who have progressive career have forgotten their duties.Its better to be failure then to be successful on sacrificing parents life. I am glad at least i did something for my parents not like other children who used their parents to get their goal and after getting their goal they left their parents. I don't need this kind of success . I am glad today that i am a responsible daughter and i will be forever

Nar ho na nirash karo manko,
kuch kaam karo kuch kaam karo,
Jag mai rehke nij naam karo,
nar ho na nirash karo manko.

Yeh janm hua kis arth aaho,
Samjho jisme yeh wyarth na ho,
Kuch to upyukt karo tanko,
Nar ho na nirash karo manko.

Samlok suyog na jaye chala,
Kab wyarth hua  sadupai bhala,
Samjho jag ko na nirash apna,
Path aap prasasth karo apna,
Akhileswar hai awlamban ko,
Nar ho na nirash karo manko.

Jab prapt tumhe sab tatva yaha,
Phir jaa sakta wah satwa kaha,
Tum satwa sudhar raspaan karo,
Uthke amratwa vidhan karo,
Tab roop raho bhavkanan ko,
Nar ho na nirash karo manko .

Nij gaurav ka nit gyaan rahe,
Hum bhi kuch hai yeh dhyaan rahe,
Sab jaaye abhi par maan rahe ,
Marnottar gunjit gaan rahe,
Kuch  ho na tajo nij sadhan ko,
nar ho na nirash karo manko,
kuch kaam karo kuch kaam karo ,
Jag mai rehke nij naam karo,
nar ho na nirash karo manko.


I love this poem .I won many prizes when I recited this poem .Actually this poem represents the truth of life. Sometimes I think that its really very very true that where sunrays can't reach there only one thing can reach and that's a writer's pen.Sometimes when i think that i need fresh air and energy I dont go outside .I just take some good collections of poems and quotations . After going through them I get fresh energy to have a new and fresh start . So its good to have some collection like this which inspire us to achieve the impossible things because even impossible means - I am possible.

Missing my old days

I remember before 2 years back I had everything in my life I had a offer letter of a reputated company .So just exactly before 2 years I had rejected a offer letter for my best friend. Really I am missing that days. No worry ,no tension of life. Life was full of joy and happiness.can I get back that days . I cant .

I am really missing some lines of  poem "Mera Naya Bachpan" by Subhadra Kumari Chauhan



Now I am in a place where I have nothing to lose. I don't have anything in my hand ,Though I am ready to face  any challenge of my life. Just I am worried about my parents little bit because they are right according to their point of view and I am according to me .So cant fight with my destiny if it uses my parents as a means to stop myself from getting my goal of life. So please destiny don't use my parents as they are very nice. Just give me sometime to achieve my goal .  I need some time to make it out.I know nobody is inborn great. People are grat because they are determined to do so. I am also determined to achieve my goal just I need is your support God .
Hope you will support me God.

Atleast I got what to do and what not to

I am here to express myself because I think from last 23 years I was unable to express myself and I was searching any way but today I got it. Today I am a free bird far away from my home in search of my destination . Hope early I will get it. Yesterday I was reading "WHITE TIGER" by Arvind Adiga. At that time I was thinking that I have to express my self through any means otherwise I would be frustated more and it would lead me in the direction where I never wanted to go. See today I got the way. Its true there is a will ,there is a way But though sometimes u are not in a position to make a choice. Sometimes you have to accept the life as it is . I was not a girl to accept my life as it is but now i am in conditon where i cant change anything. though I am trying my level best. I always followed a rule that is "Everything of too much is bad" but now i am realizing the fact that its true only for human beings not for all . Sometimes I doubt about the presence of God because I saw many things which force me to make a doubt about it. Though still I have faith on God. Somehow I lost faith on myself. So its a try for regaining my self confidence as i belief that
"Winners don't do different things, they do things differently"
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So I am trying to make out things differently (hey I know grapes are sour). But sometimes we have to like whatever we have. If we stuck to like things which we don't have then life would not be easier for us.
 I never got anything which I wanted so I started liking things which I have. Sometimes people get me wrong they think that I am appreciating my self and I don't wanna change my life but I know that whenever I will start changing myself I would be no more a happy person(because we all are social human beings and so many people are connected to our lives.So a change in our life can make effects on all the connected lives). So I don't wanna make any change in my life because I love all the  people who are directly or indirectly connected to my life.Still  I  know I will get my destination without changing  my life. Moreover the victory  would be achieved by myself  on my rules of  life. I have four rules of my life and I have to follow them throughout my  life .

1:- Every thing of too much is bad.

2:- Be your own judge and you will be happy for ever.

3:- Winners don't do different things they do things differently.

4:- Everything is as funny as long as it is happening to others when it happens to us it becomes a tragedy.